Cleansing energy with fire: from grievances, poverty, illness and negativity. Cleansing from negativity through a burning candle. Burn negativity on paper.

Since ancient times, people have used various rites and rituals to remove negative energy - damage, the evil eye, curses - through a burning candle. The most common cleansing is with a church candle. But not everyone knows that cleansing of negativity is always removed when any candles burn out. Looking at a burning candle is always useful - you can cleanse your biofield through your eyes. Also, with a burning candle you can remove negative energy from other people - from your loved ones and relatives. When damaged, the candle turns black and crackles in the place where the human biofield is pierced by a negative energy impulse. In order to determine the location of the “holes” in the biofield, you need to hold the candle next to the body and move it along the spine.

Cleansing with a candle helps you change your life for the better. The element of fire cleanses and burns everything negative that clings to a person’s aura.

The uniqueness of the effect of a candle flame on the biological field that surrounds a person is that it helps to cleanse the body of everything negative that accumulates every day. In the city it is difficult to stay in balance and keep your biofield and space clean. Therefore, candles will help for cleansing.

If you sit near a lit candle for a while and watch the flame fluctuate, you will notice how the candle throws a small amount of soot into space. This soot and smoke collects a person’s negative emotions, fatigue, irritation and resentment that have accumulated during the day.

If you regularly look at the flame of a candle, this process will help relieve mental and physical pain, relieve sadness, thus the disease from the form of energy will not move to the level of illness of the body, and will evaporate along with the smoke. The mental pain will dissipate and prevent the pain of the physical body. The fire and crackling of a candle will restore peace and peace of mind.

In order to remove layers of negative fields and programs from a loved one, you need to light a candle and stand behind him. You can take any candles - church, ordinary, magic.

Clear your mind of extraneous thoughts. Start “cleaning” the person with a candle from below, from the tailbone. The hand with the candle should make a rotational movement counterclockwise.

If the candle begins to crack, this means a problematic, broken place in which a person has or will experience in the future serious disturbances in the functioning of the body. At this moment, you can notice a flash of soot. You should hold the candle near such a zone until the candle stops smoking! When the flame has become clear again, you can move along the spine up to the very top of the head. Finish cleansing with a candle by moving above your head: at a distance of 10-15 centimeters above your head.

When working to remove negativity, many specialists widely use candles.

If you look at the use of candles from the point of view of esotericism, then the advisability of their use when correcting energy, when removing negativity - the evil eye, love spell, damage, curse, when correcting health is explained as follows.

Fire is symbolic in itself. God appeared to Moses in the form of a burning bush. The name “fire of God” is borne by one of the Archangels of God. Fire worshipers considered fire to be God.

Since ancient, even primitive times, fire has been endowed with magical, divine energy and was considered an attribute of God. This symbolism is reflected in the practice of working with candles in magic and esotericism.

Fire is included in the so-called “magic” of the elements, where a certain element - fire, water, air, earth - has its own characteristics, properties and use in magic.

The characteristics of fire that exist in elemental magic are burning, warming, melting, purifying, transforming.

Why are candles needed? Why not use other sources of fire or heat?

Firstly, using candles is simply convenient - they are small, mobile, and cheap. They are convenient to work with.

Secondly, it is candles, church candles, consecrated in the temple, that work, destroying what did not come from God and against God - damage, illness, vampirism, etc.

Thirdly, the wax from which church candles are made is important. Wax is a unique conductor that can “absorb” energy and information. Wax, like a sponge or like activated carbon, collects negative energies and... does not release them back. This is explained by the fact that wax is a LIVING, organic product that has absorbed the energy of the Sun.

Fourthly, the burning of a candle, which we burn for the health of the living, for the repose of the dead, contains a symbolic act of sacrifice.

In this case, the sacrifice consists of the following: we sacrificed something material (bought a candle). We gave up our property rights free of charge - by burning a candle, we bring it as a gift to God. Further, burning is an irrevocable act. We will not return what burned and disappeared.

And as a result, the energy of fire transformed, strengthened and transferred our prayer, our emotion, our request to the upper, Divine layers of space.

We did not receive, right here and now, any material benefits. The exchange process did not take place. We JUST GAVE something of ourselves, with gratitude, faith, LOVE, hope. And this is a sacrifice to God.

Thus, the fact of the irrevocability of what went into space along with the candle - good and bad - allows you to work with the candle, irrevocably destroying the negative - damage, love spell, evil eye, curse. As the wax evaporates, it simply levels out and erases the negative. AND STRENGTHENS the positive as a repeater-amplifier.

Introducing itself into the structure of the aura, energy, into the area of ​​the chakras or diseased areas of the body, the energy of fire begins the work of peeling off foreign energy.

What does not burn on the candle and does not evaporate with the burning wax hardens in the wax.

During operation, candles may smoke, “shoot”, or go out. Wax can flow down in dark, (to the point of black) streams, collecting negative energy, “sealing” it within itself.

By the reaction of the candle, by the color of the wax streams, by the shape of the frozen wax, you can determine the severity of the negative, identify how long ago and how many times the damage was caused. But the analysis of frozen forms on wax reveals where the harm was directed. These forms never repeat each other 100%.

These shapes are bizarre, the candle stubs are ugly. After work, these cinders must be thrown away.

Here are photographs of candle stubs that were left after working with patients. In each of them the energy of corruption, a severe form of corruption, froze. This is how the candles reacted to the absorption of negativity, distorting the structure and shape of the wax beyond recognition and ugliness.

I brought these photos in order to dispel the skepticism of some who do not believe in either corruption or magic. And also to tell you more about the mechanism of working with candles.

How do these flows arise? After all, if a candle just stands on the table, then it will simply burn out without a trace! Right. But certain manipulations and procedures are performed with candles, which is what the work of removing negativity consists of.

Most often, working with candles is combined with reading prayers or spells. In some cases (when using bioenergetics methods) - with work with the energy of fire, mental images, visualization, flows of one’s own energy.

In this case, the candle performs certain actions and movements. “Imposition of crosses” - when the patient or certain parts of the body are baptized, circular movements with a candle COUNTERclockwise, vertical movements up and down along the spine.

I introduce the energy of fire inside the body, burn clots of foreign energy on a candle, peel off the negative energy.

Below I will give the simplest and most accessible methods for working with candles yourself.

Removing the evil eye.

If the child is sleeping, light a candle and, while reading the Lord’s Prayer, slowly begin to baptize the child with the candle. Don't count the number of these crosses. The prayer should be read 3 times and the candle should be extinguished. In combination with working with water (soldering and washing the child with holy water), this method will give good results.

If it is possible to hold the child’s attention and ask/make him sit quietly, then sit him with his back to you on a chair and begin to read the “Our Father” prayer 3 times. Or - a set of prayers “Our Father”, “Psalm 90”, “Prayer to the Life-Giving Cross” or any of the conspiracies, placing crosses with a candle on a child.

These methods are also suitable for working with adults.

If the reaction is yawning - yours or that of a child/adult, discomfort in a child/adult, soot on a candle - you are doing everything right. If you have not worked with candles before, do not overdo it. 2-3 minutes a day is enough for now. With practice you can increase the time. Don’t try to destroy anything yet, “burn”, or introduce energy. Don’t stress or torture yourself if you can’t see, imagine, or feel anything. It will come in due time. You are already doing the right job.

If the first time the reaction did not manifest itself and did not make itself felt, or, on the contrary, went very violently, then perhaps you are not dealing with the evil eye, but with damage.

There is no need to immediately put a heavy load on either the patient or yourself. Better less, but more often.

This work requires enormous amounts of human energy. So don't be surprised by your fatigue.

Don’t be surprised if specialists charge you money for such work, and in severe cases, significant sums. This is payment for the return of your health and for the weakening of your health. Most specialists pass the energy of damage through themselves and then get sick. Most often this is done by shamans and “grandmothers” who use specific methods.

Be careful. Protect yourself before work. Do not work immediately with high load and impact. Don't overestimate your strength. Take your time. The normal interval for removing spoilage is 15-20 minutes every 2-3 days.

I AM NOT YET TALKING about severe cases that require working for an hour or more with one person in a row.

Combine different methods - prayers, water, church, egg rolling.

If you are not confident in your abilities, don’t do it. If you are not sure of the correctness of your actions, do not do it. It's better to consult a specialist.

This is not a joke. This is not a game. Although no, the game is a game with exposed wires in the rain in a minefield. This is true if you DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING. Self-medication is fraught if done without the supervision of a specialist.

I haven't given all my methods here. Don’t be afraid to write to me and get advice if you decide to work with candles yourself. I don't charge money for this. This will allow you to do your work better and avoid mistakes.

Try it, if you carefully and consistently follow the principle “From simple to complex”, then everything will work out.

Throughout our lives, we often encounter manifestations of negativity and aggression from other people. It is not always possible to simply get up and walk away from an aggressive interlocutor. You can't run away from traumatic situations your whole life. But you can learn to respond to them competently in order to minimize the negativity in your life.

How to learn not to react to negativity?

Simple tips on how to stop reacting to the negativity of others:

1. The easiest method is to physically distance yourself. For example, leave the room, hang up. Despite its apparent simplicity, the method does not work for loved ones;
2. abstract from the interlocutor and the conversation with him. Don't let other people's problems and negative emotions take over your attention. During the conversation, think about positive or neutral events. For example, plan your activities for the weekend, remember pleasant moments from the past;
3. do not give a response to the interlocutor. That is, do not shout, do not get angry and do not answer rudely. When your opponent is nervous, he sends his aggression towards you. If you respond in the same spirit, you are taking on his negative attitude towards you;
4. take a defensive position (crossed arms and legs);
5. analyze the actions of an aggressive person and understand the reasons for his behavior. Understanding that the interlocutor is just tired at the moment, he has had a hard day, he has problems at work or in the family, he is just trying to express his opinion, but no one understands him;
6. surround yourself with positivity. Read inspiring books, watch good movies, don’t pay attention to crime news;
7. . all muscles of the body and freeing the mind from extraneous thoughts.

How to abstract yourself from negativity at work?

In a work team, the source of negativity and gossip are, as a rule, people whose lives are not filled with interesting events; they are bored both at work and outside the office.

In order to learn to calmly react to such people, it is important to clearly understand your goals for being in this particular place. If these are making money and career achievements, concentrate every day on this, and not on gossip and quarrels in the team.

If you, as a manager, see negative sentiments on the part of an employee in your team, offer him another position with new responsibilities and a change of team. Perhaps he is bored and difficult to realize himself at his current job.

Signs you have negative energy

There are universal signs by which one can guess the presence of a negative one:

• sleep disturbances, insomnia, inadequate rest;
• constantly arising at work;
• frequent breakdowns of household appliances and cars;
• constant irritability, lethargy, apathy, lack of desire to do previously interesting things.

How to remove negative energy from yourself?

If you were unable to avoid a traumatic situation, you can use some traditional ways to get rid of negative energy.

Water is a universal way to get rid of negative energy:

1. In nature, you can give negative energy to water. It is best to come to the river, sit comfortably on the bank and talk, looking at the flow of water, about what worries and worries you. You can imagine how streams of negative energy pass from you to the river and are carried away with the flow;
2. at home, water from the shower is suitable (take a shower for at least 20-30 minutes), at work - tap water (put your hands under the running water and wash your face thoroughly). It is important to use running water and not standing water (for example, a pond);
3. In an apartment you can also take a bath with Thursday salts. It is important to carefully drain the water and take a shower at the end.

Other ways to get rid of negativity:

1. subject the body to intense physical activity: walk quickly for several kilometers, work out with dumbbells, clear snow near the house;
2. give negative energy to any solid object that can be thrown away. For example, pick up a stone, talk about your troubles and throw it far, imagining how it takes your troubles with it;
3. speak out, tell someone about your problems and experiences. The interlocutor can be not only a person, but also an animal, a doll, a painting, a tree;
4. transfer negative energy to the fire. For example, sit by the fire in nature or light a candle at home. Looking at the flame, imagine how your negative emotions are burned and disappear.

If you are removing negative energy from yourself at home, after the session you need to cleanse your home: light it and let it burn for about half an hour.

How to remove negative energy from your home?

Global is carried out when they feel bad in this room, they often quarrel or after the previous owners:

1. First you need to do some general cleaning. Find and clean all hard-to-reach places from dirt, throw away all broken and non-functional items, give unnecessary clothes and other things to those in need. It is better to carry out wet cleaning using water with Thursday salt. After such cleansing, the house will be open to receiving positive energy;
2. pay special attention to mirrors in the house. Mirror surfaces store all the negative information about past residents, about those who were sick and died in the apartment. To remove negative energy from them, you need to thoroughly wash them, first with salt, then with clean water;
3. then you can cleanse the apartment with a regular paraffin or church candle. You need to walk around the entire apartment with a lit candle counterclockwise, stopping at each corner. If a candle smokes, the flame becomes black and uneven in a certain area, this indicates the presence of negative energy. You need to go around the entire apartment again until the flame becomes even everywhere, and then leave the candle to burn out.

And some more general tips:

1. get them and look after them with love. They will neutralize negative energy from guests. If you live in a private house, you can plant trees and shrubs around the building, which will create a ring that protects from external negativity;
2. get a cat in the house. This animal has the unique gift of repelling negative energy;
3. Always clean your home after guests visit and ventilate the room well.

How to remove negative energy from your things?

If an item is donated by an ill-wisher, it can transfer negative energy to the new owner:

1. The easiest way to clean is to rinse under running water;
2. if the item is made of fabric, you can keep it for some time in a container with salt dissolved in water. This method is also suitable for cleaning jewelry;
3. You can also remove negative energy from a thing using fire. A lit candle is placed next to the object and left until it burns out completely. If we are talking about jewelry that was given or inherited, a more radical method is suitable - melt the metal and get a new product;
4. Clothes can also be washed in silver-plated water (pre-soak the silver item in a container of water overnight).

How not to attract negative energy to yourself: psychological techniques

Several effective techniques on how to stop attracting negative energy to yourself:

1. do not allow strangers to violate your boundaries: avoid talking about personal and intimate things if you don’t want to.;
2. do not be influenced. Such people feed on other people's energy. If you don't give them feedback, don't react to their negativity, they will soon lose interest in you;
3. sometimes give yourself an emotional reboot: relax in nature, take up your favorite hobby, dream;
4. avoid depressing films, thoughts, swear words in your life;
5. start it and always carry it with you.

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How to stay energized and not let negativity knock you out of the saddle:

Other people's negative thoughts and energy can cause not only depression, but also physical illness. It is impossible to completely protect yourself from the negative influence of strangers. However, everyone can help themselves get rid of negativity in accessible ways.

Useful tips

Home is a place where we should feel safe, where we come to feel comfort, relaxation and rest.

But, When a home becomes filled with negative energy, it has a tangible impact on our emotions and health. .

You can't see this energy naked eye , but you can feel it in your home, as it often reflects a person’s internal emotional state.

Bad energy can destroy your self-confidence, interfere with your sleep, and suppress your abilities.

It also brings discord into relationships, leads to conflicts, and living in such a situation leads to stress. and anxiety.

Clearing negative energy

How to identify negative energy at home?

Our feelings, emotions and thoughts emit a certain energy, but also attract a negative aura.

Negative energy can be recognized by its presence tension in the home, feelings of unhappiness, money problems. If you have pets, they may act strangely or unusually, be more restless, or make noises for no apparent reason.

Since all of these symptoms are difficult to notice right away, there is an easy way to determine if negative energy is present in your home.

Here's what to do:

· Take a completely transparent glass that has no patterns or colors on it.

Fill the glass with 1/3 sea salt.

· Then add to glass apple or white vinegar, filling the glass 2/3 full.

· Fill the remaining space with water.

· Place the glass in the corner of the room where you think there is negative energy, and leave it there for a day.

· The next day, look at the glass. If the color in the glass has not changed, then there is no bad aura in this room.

· Move the glass to another room and repeat the procedure. If you notice that the water in the glass has changed color, turned green or brown, you need to cleanse the energy in your home.

· In this case, pour the contents of the glass into the toilet and flush. Repeat the procedure in all rooms.

Fortunately there are simple ways to cleanse your home of negative energy and again fill it with an aura of joy and comfort.

How to cleanse your home of negative energy

1. Get organized.

When you walk into a clean and tidy room, you feel much better than walking into a dirty or cluttered room. This is due to the fact that all garbage and rubbish attracts negative energy.

Every time you clean, you automatically clear the space of negative energy. It is for this reason that cleaning your home or workplace should be a top priority if you want your home to radiate positivity.

· Clean and vacuum all rooms regularly your home, including the bathroom and kitchen.

· Clean doors, door handles and windows– they should be free of dirt and dust.

· Every time before going to bed, make sure that the place where you cook is clean and there are no dirty dishes left in the kitchen.

· Keep things in order and in their designated place.

· Get rid of things, which you no longer need, otherwise the junk will only accumulate.

· Get ​​rid of everyone toxic products.

· Don't put dirty laundry in the wrong place. Always keep it in your laundry basket.

2. Fumigate your home with herbs.

Fumigation is one of the oldest and most effective ways to get rid of negative energy in the home.

One of the most popular herbs for smudging is sage. When burned, sage releases large amounts of negative ions into the air, which neutralize the positive charge in the home.

Negative ions also improve well-being and clear the mind. In addition, the aroma of sage has a calming and relaxing effect.

Buy sage sprigs from the market and dry them in the Sun, tie them in a bunch and use them as fumigation stick.

· Before the procedure you you need to clean the house and open all doors and windows, as well as cabinets and drawers.

· To smudge, light the tied sage sprigs by placing them in a bowl or other fireproof container to catch the ashes and embers.

· Slightly dispel the smoke with a feather or hand.

· Begin the cleansing by directing a little smoke towards yourself, starting from your feet to your head.

Walk slowly throughout the house, walking in circles and paying special attention to walls, corners, floors and ceilings. Try to be on the left side of the room.

· Say positive affirmations during the process to promote positive energy.

· Finally, remove the burning sage from the house and leave it outside to burn.

In addition to sage, you can also use it for smudging.cedar, lavender, fir and other herbs with a sweetish odor.

3. Rearrange the furniture.

Negative energy needs things to settle on., that’s why it’s so important to rearrange your home from time to time. Simply moving the furniture is enough to destroy negative energy.

Rearrange the furniture in your home at least once a month, but consider the open space and your comfort.

Experiment with rearranging until you feel the house is filled with life and you feel comfortable in your new surroundings. Ask family and friends for advice.

Don't keep broken items or things you haven't used for a long time at home..

Throw away or donate unwanted furniture and other items.

4. Open the windows.

Fresh air and sunlight have incredible cleansing powers. Strong natural energy helps us feel better.

By letting sunshine and fresh air into your home, you infuse positivity into both your life and your home.

Open windows and doors early in the morning to bring in fresh air and release negative energy.

You can also stand in front of an open window to let the sun's rays hit your body. This will help it produce vitamin D, which has a positive effect on overall health. Bright sunlight also reduces anxiety and depression.

It is also important dry clothes in the sun, and allow your houseplants to get sunlight from time to time.

5. Sprinkle in sea salt.

Sea salt is another way to get rid of negative energy in your home and yourself. Sea salt is also believed to generate negative ions in the air, creating positive vibes.

· Add a few tablespoons of sea salt to a glass of warm water and stir until the salt dissolves. Place the solution in a spray bottle and spray it in different corners of your home.

· You can also sprinkle some sea salt in the room, especially in the corners, which are located in the northwest and southeast directions. Leave the salt overnight and then vacuum up the salt and throw it away.

· To cleanse your body, put 1 glass of sea salt in the bath filled with warm water and soak in the bath for 15-20 minutes.

6. Clap your hands loudly.

Vibrating sounds of loud hand clapping dissipates negative energy. In fact, loud and clear sounds are a powerful method of cleansing your home.

In nature, for example, the sound of thunder produces the same effect, while the sounds of fireworks and church bells have a calming and cleansing effect.

Walk around the house clapping your hands especially in corners, on shelves and under stairs so that negative energy does not accumulate in your space. The clapping sounds should be clear and light. Avoid heavy and slow clapping as this indicates negativity.

In addition to claps, you can use bells, drums and Tibetan bowls.

Cleansing the room from negative energy

7. Fill your home with essential oils.

Another good method for getting rid of negative energy in your home or office is essential oils.

The strong aroma of essential oils dispels negative energy while naturally refreshing the home, attracting positive energy into your home and life.

In addition, many aroma oils have positive effects on health, having antibacterial and antiviral properties.

To remove negativity from your home, use essential oils of lemon, sweet orange, lavender, sage, peppermint and rose.

· Fill a small bottle with spring water (but you can also use tap water).

· Mix 15-20 drops of essential oils of your choice and add them to the water.

· Diffuse this essence in the air, especially in corners, near windows and doors.

· Do this procedure once a week, or whenever you feel depressed.

8. Keep indoor plants.

Nature has provided us with many means to combat negative energy, including flowers and plants.

Plants beautify our home and add greenery to home decor, balance your inner connection with the outside world and provide oxygen to the space.

Our whole life is like a black and white zebra. When happy events happen in it, of course, we are happy.

But when something terrible and negative happens, it can be almost impossible to get rid of the unpleasant feeling in the soul, and the whole meaning of future life disappears. Often, weak-willed people cherish and cherish a grudge in their souls all their lives and cannot part with it. How to forget the past? How to get rid of negativity? How to cleanse your soul of negative thoughts and start smiling again?

Thought is material: whatever originates in a person’s head, it will certainly manifest itself in reality in one way or another. This idea is easy to both confirm and refute. It is confirmed only empirically (by examples), but is refuted by science. However, many psychologists use scientifically based methods based on a belief in the materiality of thought.

If a person thinks that he is not worthy of love, it is difficult for him to find a loved one. Simply because he is not looking for it - why, if he is not worthy? If someone believes that he is not meant to be a boss, he will never become one. Why strain when it is not given from above? If an athlete does not believe in winning, he will never be a champion. Without hoping to win, he won’t give his best - it’s pointless!

This is where the materiality of thought is expressed: internal reality is projected onto external reality. How we think is how we act, and these are the results we get. Any of our problems rests on three pillars. The first is the beliefs that caused it to arise. The second is actions that are performed in accordance with beliefs. The third is personal experience, which we interpret in such a way that the existing situation does not change. None of our problems arise out of nowhere. For example, among some women there is an opinion that there are no men worthy of becoming their life partners. Such a thought forces a woman to behave in a certain way and makes her lonely: she either avoids men, never tired of complaining about loneliness, or looks for flaws in each of them, because she must somehow confirm her beliefs. Therefore, psychologists first of all find out why the patient continues to have this or that problem.

To force a person to look at himself from the outside, rethink beliefs and change behavior, psychologists have many techniques. One of them is the method of burning problems. That is, in order to solve a problem, you need to put it on paper and burn what you wrote. There is another version of this method: the same thing is done in the imagination. Of course, the second option is only possible if the imagination is well developed.

Here, for example, is a very common technique for getting rid of problems.

Technique for burning problems

There is a great way to forget all the unpleasant moments in your past. Take a large sheet of paper and write on it all your thoughts and grievances, everything that has tormented you for many years. Don't be shy in your expressions. These are your own thoughts and you have no secrets or complexes from them. But don't rush to re-read it. You must burn this leaf. Past grievances and failures will burn away with it, and you will quickly forgetpassed e . Believe me, it really works! The fire will remove the stone from your soul, and you will feel relief and complete satisfaction with yourself.

Or here's another similar ritual...

Ritual of burning problems

If your plans do not come true because you are afraid to act, but only sigh, hoping that everything will happen on its own, then it’s time to leave such tactics. And in this situation, such a ritual will help you. Choose a day when the wind blows from the south. As in the previous case, write your problems on a piece of paper, take a yellow candle (the symbolic color of the south wind), light it and look directly at the flame, trying to imagine your troubles going away, dying, and your hopes growing and gaining brightness and color.

Gradually you will feel that your fears are beginning to leave you, you will begin to see that you are wrong in considering obstacles insurmountable. Then take a piece of paper with problems and burn it in a candle flame. Squeeze the ashes in your fist and go outside with a burning candle. Unclench your fist and let the south wind carry away the ashes. Place a candle under his gust and let the wind put it out.

This technique is simple and effective, but Pay attention to some nuances. You must realize what exactly your problem is. If you simply write: “I have no friends (job, money, health, housing),” and then burn the piece of paper, nothing will happen, don’t get your hopes up. You just complained. By complaining, a person only seeks to evoke sympathy.

A problem is a task that requires a solution. And if you express a desire to receive something, this subconsciously sets you up for active action. When a task is formulated as “I really want something,” a positive result is implied. Therefore, having written down your problem on paper (for example: “I’m lonely”), you must mentally add: “I want a loved one to come into my life.” This will help you set yourself up for victory. Otherwise, neither burning problems nor any other technique will work, because they are all aimed at activating a person’s internal resources.

This leads to the second: if you have an unfulfilled desire, then you have the resources to make it come true. Of course, we are talking only about realistically feasible desires. And a desire becomes a problem only because you do not use the resources to fulfill it. If such opportunities did not exist, the world would be mired in problems. We would all have the same poor health, we would all suffer from lack of money, unemployment and loneliness. But there are plenty of lucky people around who have everything! And among them, only a few received this by inheritance. The majority managed to include and realize their resources.
Here is an example from the lives of two friends. Both, until recently, suffered due to the housing problem. At the same time, the first one earns good money and is not used to denying herself anything. She doesn’t even try to save, because she is convinced that it is useless. The second one has a small salary and lives modestly. However, the first one still hangs around in rented apartments, and the second one, after living on bread and water for several years, working two jobs at the same time, finally bought a one-room apartment. The first had and still has the resources to purchase housing. But they are aimed at solving other problems.

The problem with most people is that they tend to focus on what they don't have rather than what they really want. This position deprives you of energy, because all your energy is spent on complaints. Therefore, you need to pay attention to what needs to be changed in yourself in order to solve the problem. When a problem is formulated correctly, options for solving it automatically come up. Let's say you need money. The question arises: what method of obtaining them is most suitable for you? Some people can change jobs, others find it easier to marry an oil tycoon.

Psychologists recommend using the burning technique to solve emotional problems, problems associated with fears or negative experiences of the past. The effect will be enhanced if fears and difficult memories are not described in words, but drawn in the form of images. Try to portray your own indecision, horror or fear of something. Think: what do they look like? It is necessary to draw the image of fear, and not the situation in which it arises. For example, if a person is afraid of heights, there is no need for him to draw himself on the edge of the roof. We need to imagine what this very fear looks like.

However, caution should be used when working with the problem burning technique. Experts do not recommend drawing and burning your image, the image of other people, animals and things with which you are closely connected, for example, your own home. Firstly, you need to separate the problem and yourself. By portraying yourself in a problem, you identify with it, which is why it becomes even more entrenched in your consciousness. Secondly, in world culture fire is the oldest symbol of purification and deliverance. But while he delivers and cleanses, he destroys. You can consider yourself a pragmatist who does not believe in any magic, but the subconscious lives and works according to its own laws. It stores archetypes that influence our thoughts and actions against our will. Who knows how emotional and impressionable you are? Most likely, ritual burning will not harm anyone. But there are cases when this action caused serious physical illnesses for some, others began to complain of weakness and helplessness, and others suddenly felt like defenseless victims. Nothing surprising - a reasonable person is accustomed to acting based on an internal image of himself. But what to do when the image burned down, and along with it, your own psychological resources turned into ashes?

Besides tin, you can burn not only notes and drawings. We have negative memories associated with some things. It could be anything, say, the clothes you were wearing when you had a major mishap. You can simply throw it away, or you can throw it into the fire with the knowledge that in this way you will forever part with the bad past.

The good thing about the technique of burning problems is that it is always with you. You don’t need any magical objects, you don’t need complex ritual actions, you don’t even have to have matches and a candle with you... It’s enough just to strain your imagination. This will help you not to be speechless when called to the boss, will allow you to calmly walk home through dark alleys, and not get confused in the face of aggression. If you find yourself in a situation that makes you afraid, mentally surround yourself with an impenetrable wall of hot flames. This is also a method of burning a problem - in this case, the problem of fear. Imaginary fire purifies and protects you.